Ugh after 2 hours of forging this post and listening my mom ramble *laughs*...
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Originally Posted by Rhedd
Your thread is now 2 pages long. Please take a break.
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I lol'ed IRL. x].
My experience with this:
I've always been a big gamer, since I'm 4 years old. I'm 22 years old now. I live with another gamer, 23 years old, who's been playing for a similar time. He plays less than I do, but we do spend a lot of times on our respective computers. We talk a lot with each other, and I'd say we have a healthy relation, since we share activities and chores. We have good times, we have less good times (can't say I've had a bad time in 3 years).
I can play up to 3 hours without a decent break, but anything longer than this and you lose me. I NEED a break at some point, because I need food, water, bio breaks, feeding the cats, homework... and for my own mental health. The most I've done was 7 hours ONCE, I had a couple of BRB moments, but it was a helluva straining on me, and I refuse to do it again today. Anything above 3 hours, I'll need a break somewhere in there just to do something else.
Right now (at the VERY moment, my husband couldn't come with me), I'm in an entirely different situation. I'm a university student on a break until... a couple days from now on *groan* with my parents at my grandparents' house, in the middle of nowhere with no place for the young to hang out except the bar (and I hate the bar scene). All my friends are in Montreal except one who's leaving, and had a hard time seeing because she's got a big party large family. Nothing on TV despite the numbers on channels offered, semi-bad weather with no outdoor equipment anyways.
So my mom looks at me, sitting at the computer for most of the day, only leaving it after 2 hours or so.
She thought I was an addict and that my life was going to get ruined over it. She started
screaming at me because I had just got back after a 2 hour and a half break break of watching a movie and falling asleep over on it; she thought I had been at the comp for 5 or 6 hours without a break. It took me an hour to calm her down and to reassure her I had gotten back at the comp a short time ago (15, 20 minutes?) and she still yelled at me at the end... after nearly another hour. In total, I might have spend 2 hours telling her how I viewed this.
My father witnessed the whole thing. He never worried about me. All that time he was telling her to cut me some slack, that I was a young man with nothing else to do then spending time with his nephews (5 yr. and 2 yr. olds) or at the computer, and to him it was fairly normal that I was on the computer since I could talk to my husband at the same time as I played a game. He found my ways totally healthy for me, but my mom wouldn't listen a word. Even today she asked me if I was addicted to my "online game". I don't think she understands it's pretty much the only place I can find people in my age range, and that I'm not "alone" so to speak.
My mom doesn't get that the situation here and my situation at my home are very different - I leave home at 8-8:30 in the morning, and barely come back before either 4pm or 6-7pm... then it's food, gaming, homework, gaming, snuggling with husband before bedtime. She's not there to see that (lol). So she sees me here and goes nuts.
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However, when it comes to people spending 36+ hours in a row on an online game... erm... sorry, but they must have a serious problems. I know I spend a lot of time at times but not THAT much... I believe in responsability. The acts I pose are mine, and I'm not escaping that. If I spend 36 hours online, I won't blame the game for addicting me - I'll blame myself for staying so ****ing long.